Poetry is like a bird it ignores all frontiers

POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING: I do write briefly about my young god-daughter inspiring me to write some children’s poetry. There are no images in this blog as this is all about the written word! Poetry has always played an important part … Continued

Unlocking the healing power of emotional writing

Today is all about writing “letters from our hearts”, specifically letters to our unborn children. Whilst I have written my letter to Grace, I am not sharing it today. Instead I want to align this blog with my Ethos of … Continued

Our adoption dreams were shattered

TRIGGER WARNING: Some people may not consider me to be truly Childless Not By Choice because my 7yr old son, Angus, died 22 yrs ago from the severe disabilities that he had from birth. Since my divorce from Angus’ mother … Continued

Existence will be a little different next week

I can hardly believe where the last year has gone. It’s only seems like a few weeks ago that Andrew and I were working so hard in the background to help make World Childless Week 2017 the success that it … Continued

Existence can be hard when you think it’s impossible

In last week’s “Existence can be hard” blog I focused on “never” being a very long time. I explained how by believing that you will “never” heal or find acceptance you are preventing any tiny, unknown seeds of hope that … Continued

Living the #CanbaceLife with Brandi Lytle

On the 4th Monday of every month I will be sharing the thoughts of other people who are starting to embrace their #CanbaceLife. As she was so instrumental in the creation of Canbace I am so pleased that Brandi Lytle, … Continued

Share your #CanbaceLife and inspire others

Sharing the way that you are embracing your #CanbaceLife not only helps you celebrate your successes, it can inspire other people who have not yet started to Canbace.  If you would like to share how you are living your #CanbaceLife … Continued

Existence can be hard when you believe healing will NEVER happen

When you are in the midst of overwhelming despair and teetering on the brink of the abyss it seems impossible to believe that healing and acceptance is attainable. You KNOW deep down that you will never get over the devastation … Continued

Beautiful perspectives on creativity

I think it is fair to say that I am an extremely creative person. In fact, at the moment I am having trouble sleeping because my creativity has gone into overdrive. No matter what I do ideas keep popping into … Continued

Creating my Canbace Life Sound Track

Both Andrew and I have been walking around the house humming random tunes over the last few weeks. Far more than normal, so I can only put that down to feeling healthier and happier in mind and spirit. So, it … Continued