Small changes can have huge impacts
One of the biggest impact that being childless not by choice has had on my life is that the fact that I for years I felt empty and colourless. My sparkle had disappeared, and my mojo fled to the far … Continued
Existence can be hard when progress is slow
Existence can be hard. Isn’t that the understatement of the century especially when you are attempting to accept the unacceptable? If healing was easy we would all have come to terms with our situation years ago. We would have listened … Continued
Courageous Canbacer Andrew Fletcher
Every Friday in “Canbace Diaries” I will be sharing the experience of another Courageous Canbacer. They will explain the shifts in their perspective as they embrace their new CANBACE life. Let’s celebrate our successes and share our stories. They may … Continued
And Now For Something Completely Different
Before I start I wonder if I need to give “And now for something completely different” some context. This is for anyone who is about my age and yet has been living on a different planet for the last 35-ish … Continued
Beautiful Perspectives for Independence Day
When I decided that Wednesday’s should be my “beautiful perspectives” day I really had no idea what I was going to write about. I vaguely thought that I could find some quotes and give my perspective on them. Alternatively, I … Continued
New(s) and reviews 3rd July 2018
When I first decided that my weekly “new” topic for the blog would be a creative cheat and be about “new(s) and reviews” I did wonder if I was making a rod for my own back. Would there be enough … Continued
Creating my new existence, a step at a time
I’ve been stuck in my “childLESS is C***” existence for so long. Sometimes it feels as thought there was never a time before being childless. So I know that turning my mindset around is going to be a long process … Continued
Canbace solves my childFREE or childLESS dilemma
“I’m so excited, I just can’t hide it. I’m about to lose control and I think I like it!” These lyrics from the Pointer Sisters could have been written for me about canbace. I’ve been singing them over and over … Continued